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My story is about myself

This event began on 21 November 2024

The Discovery

Ercp after CT and ultrasound came back negative. I presented with about 4 days of intense systemic itching. Liver function was elevated as was bilirubin. Ercp was performed thinking it was a gallstone that was blocking things up when they found this little bugaboo in the ampula. They staged the tumor at a 1A. About a week later I had my port and chemo started the first week of December. I am 51. I lost my husband 12 years ago to a grade four glioblastoma. My kids are old enough now to understand what’s going on; they were nine and five at the time of their dad’s passing. They are now 17 and 21. The tumor board was split 50/50 on whether to do surgery first or chemo first. I opted to go chemo first in hopes of catching any of the rogue outliers before they had a chance to reassemble somewhere else. I have had three stents because of sludge. But finally in March my gallbladder decided it had had enough and I had to have its emergently removed. I was told by my surgeon that the gallbladder was about four times bigger than normal, 60 cc’s of purulent fluid, and she lost counts at the number of gallstones that came out. 3 weeks later I resumed round six of fulfironox. About 2 days after that I started developing a pain which I thought was an adhesion but turned out to be two abscesses where the gallbladder used to be. I then was sent to international radiology and had two drains placed. I am scheduled for a Whipple on May 19th. And then I will resume chemo, most likely in June. The thing about my tumor is that it has never shown up on cat scan. I have never had any sort of stomach or pancreatic pain. My tumor markers have always been normal. This all presented as gallbladder. I am a bit of an enigma because there’s so much information out there on stages 3 and 4 but not a whole lot on stage one because it’s just not seen all that often so the tumor board really doesn’t know what to do with me. My team feels that the outcome is favorable especially if it turns out to be an ampillary tumor versus a pancreatic. I guess I’ll know more after May 19th.

The Impact of Time

So many people have told me that they are thankful I’ve listened to my body and I knew things weren’t as they should be. It helps that I have 23 years of medical experience as a respiratory therapist. Even though I got out of the profession in 2019 I still know a little about a lot. People need to be an advocate for themselves when the medical community brushes them off. But because my tumor is not visible on CT and that my tumor markers have been normal, my team is also mildly concerned that the tumor is growing and they can’t see it. I might have that rare tumor that produces markers that they don’t look for. We don’t know. But I am clinging to the possibility, albeit low, that they are able to reset everything without having to take a whole lot of extra tissue and that the tumor is dead and I won’t need chemo after this.

My story is about my husband

This event took place between 10 July 2023 to 12 March 2025

The Discovery

My husband was diagnosed as being a Diabetic in December 2023, onset, very sudden. We didn’t know at the time but that can be a sign. He went to one Dr which thought he had a bowel obstruction, next Dr did a CT scan and we were told he had a large tumor on the tail of his Pancreas. We were told at diagnosis that the tumor was inoperable, it was wrapped around several arteries. He did chemo every 2 weeks and would come home with a pump. Then he went through radiation. He had a worse time with the radiation that chemo. His numbers came down to close to normal range, he had seven good months, did whatever he wanted. In September of 2024, after having lab work, they found that his numbers had increased significantly. They recommended a different chemo which did not seem to be helping. In February he started testing for a clinical trial, at some point one of the test results disqualified him. Everything went downhill from there, He became very lethargic, wasn’t eating and not drinking much. He started to get ascites and had to get his stomach pumped numerous times. The Dr recommended hospice in March 6th, hospice came on March 9th and he passed March 12th at 64 years old.

The Impact of Time

If you research pancreatic cancer, the survival rate is so low, he and our family were so thankful that he got 20 months to make more memories and spend as much time as possible with each other. I think sometimes it takes something like cancer to show People that life can change so quickly, especially with Pancreatic Cancer. Live life to the fullest, don’t hold grudges and love your family like there is no tomorrow!

My story is about myself

This event began on 16 September 2022

The Discovery

I had some tummy issues for about 9 months, but nothing so severe that would alarm me… it was a stressful time in my life and I chalked it off to that. Looking back, I guess there were some changes in my bowels, too. What brought me to the hospital was uncontrollable itching for 3 day.

My biliary levels were very high, in the thousands, as were my liver levels. An ER doctor had just come from a conference on pancreatic cancer and was alerted to the symptom of itching. A CT scan and an MRI showed a tumor compressing the biliary tract. Within three days , and ECRP and stent was placed in The gallbladder. Diagnosis: stage 1B borderline resectable Pancreatic Adenocarcinoma. I was 54 years old.
A week after that a port placed.

Treatment began the first week of October. 6 months of brutal chemotherapy followed by 24 sessions of radiation prepared me for a Whipple procedure on May 18, 2023. They got it all! I was lucky.

I still go for blood work every 8 weeks and scans every 4-6 months. As of today, April 30, 2025, no re occurrence.

The Impact of Time

Early detection was key to my outcome… a good team of oncologists, nurses and surgeons fought alongside me, as did my family and friends. We need to focus more on uncommon symptoms and bringing awareness to populations more prone to this disease. I had no family history, no genetic markers… screening is essential to survival rates! Funding is needed… my outlook has changed drastically. I thought it was a death sentence, but it can be beat if discovered early. Aggressive treatment was also beneficial….

Just before my diagnosis, I found my birth mother. I was so happy to be in her life because she never had any children after me. I thought I was giving her a gift, but she was my gift. She held my hand through many treatments, surgery, and recovery when my parents couldn’t because of their aging and failing health. God placed an angel in my life when I needed her most.

My story is about my mother.

This event took place between 29 December 2022 to 17 November 2024

The Discovery

It was discovered by an abdominal ultrasound without any symptoms it was just an alert inside my soul, I’m a doctor and I felt something with my mother was not ok, she had a severe accident the previous year and the cancer didn’t appear in none of the images (tomography/ magnetic resonance), it was just a feeling. When she was diagnosed it was a IV stage, it was spread to her ganglion, lungs and liver.

The Impact of Time

The first thing I want to express is that my mother was young (she was in her sixties) and a really positive and generous woman, she always take care of everybody no matter the results or impact it had on her, she was a hard working and active person, so the day that she realized about her diagnosis she never gave up, she took a supernatural strength and kept on fighting against all odds, her treatment consisted in a multiple chemotherapy (4 different chemotherapies all together through a port a cath) and she received 37 cycles , and survive 1 and 11 months.

I want to share my mother’s story because against all statistics and numbers and percentages, she overcame the average survival and I think it was because her inner strength and desire of living , she left us young and with many beautiful things she deserved to obtain from life, somehow this story deserves to be told. From my experience as daughter and the closest person including my father and sister, her living experience must be shown as a prove of hope and faith.

My Story is about Hélade Izabela

 

This event took place from 3/31/2021 to 11/21/2024

 

The Discovery

In January 2021, I had an attack of renal colic, an old acquaintance of mine, which alerted me to see a specialist again, so as not to have to spend days in the hospital, as we were still in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic.
And in a finding, in a CT scan, the diagnosis of pancreatic cancer came.

As I trained and ate well, I would never think that weight loss would indicate any health issues. And I also stopped feeling hungry, another symptom that wouldn’t lead me to seek medical help, I didn’t have pain, or any other symptom, and I only discovered it due to a renal colic attack.
I underwent surgery in May 2021, a body-to-tail pancreatectomy, and after 2 months I needed radiotherapy, due to compromised margins after surgery. There were 30 sessions.

This is My Story

Many fears, anxieties, it was like seeing life come to a standstill and in an instant not knowing how or where to go. And the road is long, since the day I received the diagnosis 310 days passed, 10 months and 4 days of a real rollercoaster of feelings and a huge medical marathon I became a true onco athlete olimpica. And all stages are important, difficult and transformative, surgery, treatment, follow-up. Anxiety when exams, appointments, always deal with countless feelings. And getting back to life after all this avalanche is perhaps one of the biggest challenges. We will never be the same people as before of the diagnosis, this is a fact. But life is still there, the same life, and in front of that life a new being trying to find itself again and rebuild itself. Talking about this is important, to make the process less lonely, to understand this “new world”, to understand and find oneself and also to raise people’s awareness. Having the vision of the disease told by patients is extremely important, it validates our processes and feelings. And it helps to break down many taboos, myths and fears. Cancer is scary, it’s no joke, but it’s not the end, nor a death sentence, we are the greatest generation of survivors, and if every time a person shares their trajectory, serve as a warning so that a person can have an early diagnosis, we will be an even bigger group! Talking about prevention saves lives, because those who seek yes, yes, but whoever finds cures!

The Impact of Time

That’s why I always say, pay close attention to any unusual signs that appear on your body, maybe if it weren’t for the kidney stones, I wouldn’t be here today, telling my story, right? When I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer I went through all kinds of “unnecessary things to say to a cancer patient”, ranging from the classic ones to the more specific ones, which involve the prognosis of pancreatic cancer and its stigma of non-survival. Even once doing tests, the “professional” who did the collection asked me why I was doing so many tests, since I visited the laboratory almost daily, I told her and talked about the anguish of not finding anyone who could talk about what was going on. going through, someone who had been through it, and could share their experience. She promptly replied that it was obvious, when it’s pancreatic cancer no one survives. Unfortunately, when we talk about pancreatic cancer we still hear many people wrongly say that there is no chance of surviving the diagnosis, due to the statistics and high mortality rates, thus carrying the stigma of “non-survival”. But you can’t just consider NUMBERS when talking about LIVES! And today, 3 years after the end of my treatment, I have already met several survivors living their lives to the fullest. We EXIST

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My Story is about my dad, Don Anderson

 

This event took place from 6/01/2014 to 5/13/2015

 

The Discovery

June 1, 2014 my healthy 53 year old daddy had his first pain. The night before, he played in a garage band with a couple of his buddies and they had a great night playing for friends. Absolutely nothing was wrong. That changed in an instant. At the ED, we heard the words that changed our lives forever “a mass on the pancreas”. The hospital took a biopsy and didn’t get any positive cells so they said they had mistakenly diagnosed this and it was pancreatitis. They sent him home with suggestions on how to prevent flair ups. In the 3 months after that, he was in pain on and off where they diagnosed him with diabetes, did multiple ERCPs and a total of 7 tests before getting a positive cell.

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At the end of August 2014, my boyfriend walked into my parents’ house to ask for my hand in marriage about 5 minutes after the doctor called him to deliver the news of the positive cells. We traveled back to Duke to meet with the surgeon with a surgery date 3 weeks away. September 10, 2014, my dad had the Whipple surgery done and a vein resection also had to be done. The surgeon told us the tumor was large and aggressive, adenocarcinoma. The surgeon told us there was a 90% chance, he would not make it. When this news was told to my dad, his response was I have a 10% chance. I can do this. He set the record for the fastest discharge after a Whipple at Duke. September 28, 2014, I got engaged and I knew I wanted to quickly get married because of his diagnosis. Friday, November 14, 2014 the day before my wedding, my mom called me and said my dad’s surgical incision had split open overnight and they were at Duke and his surgical oncology team wanted him to be admitted. It was important to my dad to be at my wedding, unfortunately I think we all knew what was ahead for him. They temporarily patched him up and sent him house with strict orders to come back to the hospital on Monday morning. We got married on November 15, 2014 and in the 2 months from my dad’s surgery to my wedding day, he lost so much weight and began to look so weak.
The radiation left him in so much pain and the chemotherapy pill that he took caused him nausea and vomiting daily. March 2015, the ascites started and my dad started going to the hospital twice a week to get it drained. We knew this was bad but we didn’t give up fighting for him and with him. By April 2015, he was so weak he could barely walk and he went back to the hospital where they admitted him and eventually sent him home on hospice. A former college football player, 54 years old now on his death bed. We watched him waste away into nothing but bones.  My brother, my mom, my husband, and I spent every day soaking up every moment we could with him. On May 13, 2015 my husband and I closed on our first home and I immediately went back to my parents’ house when we were finished. Less than an hour later, my daddy peacefully passed away with my mom, my brother, the hospice nurse, and myself by his side. 6 days before that, I asked him if he was ever scared through any of this. He told me no and that’s why having a strong faith is important. He told he was tired and he was ready to go. He told me all he ever wanted in life was to be a good husband, a good father, and a good provider. I assured him he had reached all his goals. He told me one day I was going to be a good mom. I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks later and my daughter which would have been my dad’s first grandchild was born exactly 8 months after he passed. My brother is now married to my dad’s hospice nurse. In the next 5 years, my dad’s 4 grandchildren were born. I have two girls and my brother a boy and a girl. We watched our dad be a father figure to so many people and he loved his friend’s grandchildren so much, it is devastating that pancreatic cancer took being a grandparent away from him. Losing my dad at 24 years old shifted my life in a way I will never recover from. My brother and I have each suffered with mental health struggles in the years since his death. Pancreatic cancer took the strongest man we have ever known and who we counted on.

The Impact of Time

If we just had more time, I wouldn’t have lost my dad less than 6 months after I was married. If we just had more time, I wouldn’t have planned my dad’s funeral at 24 years old. If we just had more time, he would have got to meet his first grandchild, my daughter, born exactly eight months after he passed away. If we just had more time, he would have been able to retire and live out his dream of moving to the beach.

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My Story is about Giovanni Lo Re

This is My Story

In memory of a dear friend-patient suffering from inoperable adenocarcinoma of the head of the pancreas.
After local and systemic conservative treatment, he had the strength and determination to maintain the stationarity of the disease through a slow and constant path.
Physical exercise positively influenced the stability of the disease, present but dormant, for a very long period of time, although this positive outcome is rare for a disease as serious as pancreatic cancer.
This very important concept was explored in depth during the presentation of his first book“Se cammino, vivo. Se di cancro si muore, pur si vive” during Pordenonelegge on sept 2018 . A first step that began a scientific study that led to the publication of an article “Physical exercise in locally advanced pancreatic adenocarcinoma: “If I walk, I live. Although one can die of cancer, now I am living” (J Cancer Metastasis Treat 2019;5:81).
He traveled 27,000 km and was very active, participating in meetings, including the World Pancreatic Cancer Day to Verona on November 2020. He has contributed to talking more and more about this disease with few effective treatments. His unique experience allowed him to confirm the importance of physical exercise on immune surveillance, which made it possible to obtain the stability of the disease for about 10 years of natural history.
Proof of this is the last book he wrote before he left us

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My Story is about My story is myself

 

This event took place from 10/10/2019 to 11/15/2023

 

The Discovery

It was discovered by my Gastro Doctor and my persistent. Because my oldest sister Gloria passed away from pancreatic cancer over 25 years ago because the doctors could not find out what was her problem was until it was too late and when they did it was stage 4. So it has always been on mind.
We both suffer with stomach issues. I was diagnosed with diverticulitis 4 years ago and I had the dr to check.my pancreas at that time and we found nothing. The pain started again on October 2019 and I ask my Gastro Dr. to send me some antibiotics for.7 days and the pain was still there so she decided to run more tests. I insisted that she check my pancreas again and there it was a spot on the tail of my pancreas. My doctor referred me to a surgeon who had performed surgery and removed my spleen, gallbladder and the tail of the pancreas. It was stage 1. I had to have 6 months of aggressive chemo and 6 weeks of radiation. I was treated like I had stage 4. Presently, I am Cancer Free and every 4 months I have to have a CAT scan done. Please listen to your body and be persistent with your Doctors. Make them dig in and find out whatever your problems may be. My sister had to die for me to live. I didn’t give up on me.

This is My Story

Listen and know your body.

The Impact of Time

Because of my sister having pancreas cancer it stayed on my mind and I was able to catch it in the early stage. My outlook has changed the way I look at and paid close attention toy body. It seems that after you have cancer you are always thinking something is going on with your body. So I have to been positive and remind myself that I am okay. I am.so blessed that God spared my lift and I feel that I have to share my story to help someone else. I am so glad that we are focusing on pancreatic cancer to detect it in its early stage. It can been done.

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My Story is about My husband, Alex Lopez

 

This event took place from 07/01/2018 to 09/20/2019

 

The Discovery

It was a very long and painful process for my husband before we got the final diagnosis that it was Pancreatic Cancer in January 2019.

Being a very fit man (training for the Hawaiian Triathlon), it was very odd and out of character that Alex started to suffer from severe stomach pains and indigestion. Medical investigations were carried out including, Endoscopies, Colonoscopies, Scans and MRI’s which were inconclusive, only showing some inflammation in the pancreas though nothing showing the cause.

Alex continued to get worse and on the 26th of November was admitted into hospital with pain that had become unbearable.

It was then discovered the liver was infected, and his bloods were showing markers for cancer and tumors.

Deterioration was swift and still no definitive result where the cancer was, though the Pancreas was where most likely.

Alex underwent major Whipple surgery in January 2019 where our worst fears were realized. The Metastasized Pancreatic Cancer was found in the lymph nodes so was automatically diagnosed as stage 4.

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The next 8 months were a roller coaster where Alex endured months in hospital with multiple stays in Intensive Care and chemotherapy treatments. There was a short reprieve during this time, and Alex was able to live a relatively normal life during this time.

Sadly, it was only brief, and he lost his fight on the 20th of September 2019, after summoning enormous strength to be with me on my birthday on the 17th.

The Impact of Time

TIME IS IMPORTANT!

An experience such as what Alex went through makes you realise that time is very precious and every moment is a gift and should be treasured.

Time is equally important early in the process to diagnose and begin treating (if appropriate) the cancer as soon as possible.

We need more research into early detection so we can fight this insidious disease before it has a chance to take hold.

 

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My Story is about Me: Eric Borden

 

This event took place from 06/15/2017 to 08/14/2017

 

The Discovery

My story begins with bloodwork testing every three months for liver functions due to statin use. My liver enzymes were elevated for a few prior tests and my PCP tried to determine why. Off statins? Didn’t help. Hep C test? Didn’t show anything….He was confused. Throwing up his hands, he said, “Go for a CT scan. You never know what you may find.”

After the CT, I received a call one week later from someone in my PCP’s office. “Mr. Borden, The scan shows a lesion on your pancreas and it’s suggested you come back in one year to check it.” I phoned my GI who immediately schedules an EUS ultimately confirming an adenocarcinoma. Successful Whipple surgery was performed at Johns Hopkins by Dr. Christopher Wolfgang and Dr. Jin Hei on August 14, 2017. I’m a six year survivor!

My story is this: Be your own advocate! My PCP never reviewed my scan. That’s another story! But if I didn’t advocate for myself I wouldn’t be here writing this summary.

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“Yes, I’m calling with your CAT scan results. You have a cystic lesion on your
pancreas of 1.7cm and we recommend follow up in one year.”

After receiving that phone call I immediately said “no way.” With results forwarded to my GI, he suggested an endoscopy with ultrasound to take a closer look. During that procedure and biopsy, it was discovered that I had a 95% chance of having a malignant tumor on my pancreas. I researched the best possible scenario and medical/surgical team ultimately deciding to go to Johns Hopkins in Baltimore for my surgery. Successful Whipple surgery was conducted on August 14 and I’m on the road to recovery with a six month chemo stint on the horizon.

Here’s the kicker: Because I was my own advocate my disease was caught very early. Imagine if I had listened to my internist and waited the year. You wouldn’t be reading about this topic nor would you possibly be reading about this next year! I took it upon myself to control my own health direction. Becoming your own advocate and knowing what would be best for you helps you direct your life in your own best interests. Becoming either complacent or relying on others’ opinions and directions may not be the best course of action for your life. Do what your instincts tell you. Don’t be shy about speaking up and taking control of
your particular situation.

You’re the most important person to you. Do your due diligence. You know yourself best. Trust your instincts and go with them and when it doesn’t feel right.

The Impact of Time

“Time is of the essence” seems so simple and obvious now. As I mentioned, if I did not immediately become my own advocate, I most likely would not be writing this summary. Time and my own self advocacy has given me time to continue to do the things I love, both personally and with my family. Time has also allowed me to add more time helping others.

For years I have been involved with many Pancreatic Cancer organizations and events…..PanCAN, Lustgarten, AFFPC, Project Purple, appearing on various news outlets to name a few, and volunteering at cancer centers to engage and help patients and their families go through the tough fight of a pancreatic cancer diagnosis. My message is this: “In business, hope is not a strategy. When dealing with a pancreatic cancer diagnosis, hope is the most important strategy to have!” None of this would have happened if my time was cut short.

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